| Social and Moral Responsibilities | ||||
| " to promote the moral and social culture of its members..." Consitution, Article II, Section 1. "It shall be the duty of each member to exemplify in her daily conduct the noble principles of this sorority, to promote the welfare of the whole by every means consistent with a high sense of honor, to obey its laws, to avoid all conduct which may be criticized among aquaintances or be offensive to her fellow members... Constitution, Article III, Section 3. Delta Zeta choses women of high moral standing and character for membership. The principles of good behavior and respect for oneself and others are the core values of who we are and what others should think of us. Peer pressure can lead to even the strongest to question, scrutinize and temporarily toss moral convictions to the wayside. But you are always responsible for the choices you make that affect your behavior - good or bad. Each Delta Zeta member is expected to always conduct herself with dignity and to avoid situations which might be construed in a damaging way or which might harm herself or others. Poor behavior is a reflection not only upon the person but on the group as a whole. Delta Zeta has strict policies on Alcohol , Hazing and other standards of conduct. All members must sign the Alcohol, Anti-Hazing, and Financial Responsibility Statement which is kept on file at National Headquarters. Your signature is your commitment to uphold the ideals of Delta Zeta. Failure to live up to this commitment may result in the termination of membership. Etiquette "It shall be the duty of every member to exemplify in her daily conduct the noble principles of this sorority... to avoid all conduct which may be criticized among acquaintances..." Constitution, Article III, Section 3. In the recent past, college women have thought of etiquette as a throwback to teh days of stuffy teas, hats and white gloves. Although many of these formalities have disappeared from modern etiquette, proper social skills are essential to function in today's society. Mastering social graces means having the ability to know and practice what are acceptable manners, and the art of making those around you feel at ease. Having these skills will take you far, for etiquette is an extremely important part of social and business success. Good manners and form define the caliber of who we are regardless of our income, degree, or formal education, or career. A woman with good manners show the world who she is - her tastes, opinion, friends, quality of life and her self respect. The practice of good manners is a sign of good taste as well as a show of common courtesy to those around you. Simple actions, such as saying thank you and please or even holding a door for someone, may seem trival but yet they make a statement about that person's character. The impressions we give to others can create opportunities thoughtout our lives. "Your manners are always under examination, and by committees little suspected...but they are awarding or denying you very high prizes when you least think of it." - Emerson In the frantic pace of today's world it is not surprising taht much business is conducted over breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Having good table manners, not having to think about what is right or wrong, means being able to devote all your mind and attention to the business at hand, not worrying about which fork to use. It signals to your meal companion that you know what you are doing. This oftern translates into jobs, promotions, new clients and sales. As a socail organization, Delta Zeta gives you many opportunities to perfect your social skills. Delta Zeta stands not only for sisterhood but for culture and refinement, which are the indispensable marks of Delta Zeta. Some Pointers * Stand when an older person enters the room. This is to show respect. * Be ready to make introductions to make others feel comfortable with those they don't know. * Dress appropriately for the occasion, with all clothing in good repair. *Say thank you and send a thank you note when someone does something nice for you or gives you a gift. *The basis of all good manners is consideration for the other person. Be considerate of your roommate and your neighbors. |
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